Dear Haleigh and Taylor,
There has been something going on in our(us, the writters) grade at our school for a long time that no one really talks about because most dont care, but it bothers me. The girls on our grade seem to think quite highly of themselves, and are not afraid to share it. After every school year ends they always make the comment of, "I hope a hot, or just worth while, guy comes to our school next year." They make this comment directly to the faces of all the guys in the grade, to which the guys say nothing, or just walk away out of respect. It has happened every year I can remember, and even some of the girls who have told me that the guys need to not worry about looks as much at our school have said the same thing. And In retaliation, i have once said "Maybe this year a hot girl will come." and they jump on me like I said something outlandish and comepletely out of line. I'm no egomaniac, but most outsiders, including adults and kids from other schools, all agree that in reality our grade has many more good looking and "worth while" guys than girls. The girls in our grade are regarded as the meanest in the entire school and tend to have a common consensus that every guy, and especially the ones in our grade, are out to get one thing from them. I'd like for them to spend one week in any other school and then have them tell me how that theory worked out for them. I am not asking for much, just a little respect from them. Because we respect them much more than give us credit for. I'd also like for them to make a choice: be consistent with your opinion of us and leave us alone, instead of sometimes dating and leading us on, or wake up and realize whats been right in front of them the whole time.
Thanks for your time,
Food for thought
Dear Food for Thought,
We like the name. We really do. Is there a story behind it?
As far as your problem goes in your school, we actually have somewhat of a similar problem, so this one is kind of easy to relate to. Although I must point out.. there was no actual question that you asked.
There's really no way to fix your problem, and we're sorry that we're unable to give you better advice. The thing is that once a group of girls have a set opinion on you, it takes a lot for that to change. It has nothing to do with the guys personality.. It's generally due to a girl's immaturity. I'll show you how it usually happens.. and this may explain the whole "sometimes dating you and leading you on". You start talking to a girl.. texting her a lot. Let's name her Lauren. You give Lauren a lot of attention, and Lauren LOVES it. So she starts thinking about you and decides she likes you. You and Lauren start dating, but when the news gets back to her friends, they all ask her, "What are you thinking?" She starts second guessing herself, picks out every bad thing about you, like how you chew your food or how you laugh, and she's over it. You now have a broken heart, and the girl moves on. This post sounds just like a bash on girls, but it's not. Trust me, guys have done the most idiotic things as well, but I'm trying to explain what may be happening. The only way to go around this is to find a girl that can think for herself, rather than going along with all of her friends without giving it a second thought. Don't worry, most girls grow out if it anyways, but for the time being, don't look for girls in "that crowd". Go find a girl who's into more than just the latest gossip, and a girl you could really and truly get to know. Once you find her, hold on to her. Have fun. The most you can do is ignore the mean, rude, egotistical girls, and wait to find that certain someone.(: Let us know if we were able to help, we really weren't sure what you were asking.
p.s. if you can't find one in your grade, shoot for older. haha.
Love,
Haleigh and Taylor
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