Dear Haleigh and Taylor,
Its us again, and we have one more inquiry for you. We were just wondering this- why do girls go for the jerks a lot of the time, when there are guys that are actually nice and treat girls right right there the whole time. I ave been in plenty of situations where a girl has been led on by a guy who was a jerk and they still liked him after that happened, and I would like that girl and would have been talking to her very often for awhile and wouldnt do something like that to them, but they just look over me because I am not like incredibly attractive. And i know its not because I'm ugly or anything, because not to sound arrogant, but girls have been forward with me and told me I'm attractive. But it just makes me mad that the girls decide they want to go for a huge douchebag because they're the most attractive guy they know or she somehow likes them or even maybe had been dating him for long enough to "love him". Its fairly annoying, and My buddy here has been through the same situation, because he liked a girl and wanted to date her, but she had a jerk boyfriend who treated her awful, and went of to college anyways but she still dated him for reasons unknown to anybody except her. They are still friends, and she will confide to him about the jerk struff he does, but she still stays with him despite the mean stuff he does to her. This leaves him wondering what could be but I guess some things aren't meant tobe known.
Dear Food for Thought,
The girls who can't see a nice guy to save their lives usually can't for two reasons: 1, They like the thrill of not knowing what comes next, and 2, they're really not ready for someone who could actually be capable of liking them for who they are rather than what they have to offer. Unfortunately, that "thrill" is typically fear of commitment. Yes, it sounds cheesy, but it is so true. The jerks that you guys are talking about are generally straight to the point, don't really care, and never have any intentions on treating her respectfully. Girls sometimes want to take those kind of people and "change them" into the person they want. They like the challenge and the chase, and the jerk guy generally ends up winning all around.
As far as your buddy goes, the girl that he wants to date doesn't really have to give him a reason for why she stays with him. Now that he's gone to college, really it's only a matter of time before they break up. Sucks for your friend if they don't, but Apparently she's okay with being treated like that. See, when those kind of guys are so mean, all the time, then they do something like open the door for his girlfriend, his girlfriend will forget all the things he's done and decide that he's the nicest thing ever. It's a kind of denial. She wants to stay with her boyfriend, so she convinces herself that he's the one.
Love,
Haleigh and Taylor
Dear Food for Thought,
The girls who can't see a nice guy to save their lives usually can't for two reasons: 1, They like the thrill of not knowing what comes next, and 2, they're really not ready for someone who could actually be capable of liking them for who they are rather than what they have to offer. Unfortunately, that "thrill" is typically fear of commitment. Yes, it sounds cheesy, but it is so true. The jerks that you guys are talking about are generally straight to the point, don't really care, and never have any intentions on treating her respectfully. Girls sometimes want to take those kind of people and "change them" into the person they want. They like the challenge and the chase, and the jerk guy generally ends up winning all around.
As far as your buddy goes, the girl that he wants to date doesn't really have to give him a reason for why she stays with him. Now that he's gone to college, really it's only a matter of time before they break up. Sucks for your friend if they don't, but Apparently she's okay with being treated like that. See, when those kind of guys are so mean, all the time, then they do something like open the door for his girlfriend, his girlfriend will forget all the things he's done and decide that he's the nicest thing ever. It's a kind of denial. She wants to stay with her boyfriend, so she convinces herself that he's the one.
Love,
Haleigh and Taylor
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