Post Number Eight.

Dear (Insert Clever Pen Name Here),
   This post may be longer than others, because we have a lot to say on this matter. And don't worry, were going to be so cliche that youll be able to taste it.
    This is a situation that happens in a lot of relationships. All we can beg and plead for you to do is take it easy (by easy we mean slow). A few reason to do so:

1. Were going to use an analogy of a line. Imagine your in a HUGE white room with nothing but a red line dividing it in half. And on this line is the word "sex" written all over it. Now imagine that there is now a kickball in the room as well, and on this kickball is the word "you." From the first time you hold hands with your boyfriend, you nudge the ball closer to the line. Because one thing always leads to another. Therefore in you situation, you cannot kick the ball as hard as you possibly can and expect the ball to stop on its own right before it passes that line. And crossing that line is not something we want for you, or for anyone at this time in our lives.
   Also keep in mind the time you two have been dating, and make sure you are moving at an acceptable pace. You mentioned that your boyfriend is very respectful and doesn't make-out. I have seen this many times before, but usually the roles are reversed. Many times the boys tempt the "moral and respectful girl" to do things that she is not willing to do. Just keep this in mind, dont try to make him do something he doesnt want to do.
   I know many people say "don't care what others think of you", but that is not completely true. You should take into consideration what others are seeing you as, and if that is the real you. You don't want others (boys included) to see you as something you re not, something you would not want to be labeled as.
   Be true to yourself, Respect yourself. If you don't respect yourself, the you cannot expect anyone to treat you with respect.
  Dont be labeled as the "Easy" girl. Be mysterious and aloof. Boys may say that the like the "easy" girls, but the truth is, that they get bored fast. They love a chase, they live their life like everything is a competition, Dont let him win too fast.
Best wishes, let us know how things worked out.


Love,
Haleigh and Taylor.