Post Number Eleven.

Dear Haleigh and Taylor,

               

                I think you’ll be hearing from me a lot. My name is anonymous. Tee hee, some humor to lighten the mood. Anyways, on to my troubles. Where to begin…you see, I have this significant other. Her name is taylor and she has red hair and blue eyes. Just kidding! I crack myself up lol alright now seriously. There’s this person that I happen to like a lot but my friends do not. I can understand why one or two of them don’t but everytime they give me crap about it, it makes me feel bad cuz my friends mean everything to me! They’re the cup to my cake and without them I wouldn’t be me. But this person means a lot to me too and I know I can never make them like him but still, it kills me that they think I can do better. How can I stop worrying about this or get them to see that he’s not terrible??

 

-anonymous

Dear Anonymous,

  Your red haired, blue eyed significant other sounds ridiculously attractive. You know, some humor to lighten the mood. Now on to your troubles.. Having your friends disapprove of the boy you like can be extremely confusing. Trust us, we know. Our advice to you would be to think about which friends have always told you the truth no matter what. Which friends have never steered you wrong? Because these are the friends that will always point you in the right direction. Think about the friends you've chosen who are always honest to you. Now, are these the ones who are telling you he's not the right one? If so, you may want to self-evaluate this "said boy". Remember that we're in highschool. If you come to the conclusion that he is, in fact, not the one for you, other boys will come along. We promise. However, if you come to the conclusion that your friends are wrong and you know him better than they do, then congratulations! Enjoy your relationship. But I would talk to your friends, and tell them how it makes you frustrated when they do that. Tell them that unless it's something new, you don't want to hear it anymore, because you have obviously already heard them. Let us know how everything works out, and e-mail us again! Good luck!

Love,

Haleigh and Taylor