Ok i need help with guy trouble. So me and this guy have been together over a year, but he lies over stupid stuff and it makes me cry cause we get into it and then he crys and says how much i mean to him and stuff. What Do I Do??
- Anonymous
Dear Anonymous,
Well first of all, I know it may not have a huge impact on your situation and how you think of it, but sweetie, this is high school. Don't let this tear you apart. The point in dating throughout high school, and even out of high school, is to find what you like and what you dislike in a partner. And it's quite obvious you have come across something particular things you don't like, and that's not necessarily a bad thing! But you do need to remember that high school already adds so much stress into your life as it is, and you do not need a stressful relationship to add on top of that. If you feel like its beginning to be too much, maybe you need to step back and look at this relationship and weigh the pros and cons. Trust us, there will be more guys. Guys who will see you for what you're worth and not find it necessary to lie to you, especially over frivolous things. Don't make this situation bigger than it has to be, trust me when i say that it isn't worth the pain. But before you do anything, I propose that you sit down and talk to him about whats bothering you. And if he's willing to handle things, and try to fix them, then great. But don't settle for something that is beneath you, you deserve the absolute best. I promise. Try this and let us know how everything works out. Best Wishes.
Love,
Haleigh and Taylor
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